Let me start off by coming clean. The concept of this post is someone else’s idea. I have been following another young couple’s Melanoma Blog and I got this idea from them. Since imitation is the best form of flattery, I hope they don’t mind that I am an idea thief.
There are lots of you out there that read this blog and email me directly. The rest of you post once in a while, and some of you have no idea how to post a comment because you are just very very bad at navigating the internet (you know who you are). But I am asking that all of you try.
Because he has stopped reading it (he can’t see well enough to read the screen), Mike seems to think that no one else is reading the blog either. I want to show him otherwise. Plus, I would love to see who is following our story. So get started and post some positive thoughts, encouraging words, funny stories, jabs at Mike’s football picks, jokes (dirty or clean, we love both kinds) or anything else your heart desires. I will then print all the comments and read them to Mike. He will be so happy to know that so many people, even people he doesn’t know or hasn’t seen in years, are cheering him on. I am hoping for lots and lots of comments!
If you are waiting for me to update you on Mike—well, I don’t really have an update. Mike is basically the same. He is really weak, cannot walk or get out of bed, sleeps a lot, seems confused at times but lucid most of the time, and is generally in poor shape. But he is convinced that he will get through this, and he is determined to fight. In fact, we are hoping to get him started on a very very low dose chemo pill (he will take the pills at home) to see if we can see some improvement. Keeping fingers crossed.
We continue to be surrounded and supported by our amazing families and friends. Thank you. We love you all!
OK, now start typing. I am counting on you.
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Liz and Mike,
My name is Niki, and my husband, Joe (Stage IIA), and I live in Virginia. I have been following your blog for quite some time. I can't even remember where I came across it--probably MPIP. We are strangers, but I want you to know that I have been praying for you both. You are both so strong, and your story is inspiring. Your love is evident in every word you write. Please know that many, many people are constantly thinking of you and praying for you.
Niki
Hi Mike (son #2)
Hope you are having a great day and feeling a little better. I hear Mr. Slant was up to see you yesterday that is fantastic. He's such a great guy (like you). I hear you're enjoying the Eagles, well I guess you enjoyed Sunday's game. People at work thought maybe the uniforms did it. I told them I don't care if they play naked as long as they win. We're planning to come see you this weekend, I will call first. Please hang in there and remember we all love you so much and also, "It's better to look good then to feel good and you look marvelous". Love Mom #2.
Liz and Mike,
This is Suzan and we are from Georgia. Liz was so kind to reach out to me when we first found out that Keith was Stage IV. I check you blog each morning and also some times during the day. Mike, stay strong. With Liz in your corner, I know you will do well. Also, know that you are both in my thought and prayers.
Suzan (wife of Keith - Stage IV)
Hi Liz and Mike,
I started following your story on the MPIP and read every new post on your blog. I assume if Liz doesn't post that you all have decided to run away from home and are sailing around the world. Seriously, I expect the best when I don't hear anything because I'm getting old and I've learned the truth of my mom's old adage that you pay a high interest on borrowed trouble.
Of course the way trouble came knocking on your door, you are in a situation where the door has to be barricaded to make it stop picking on you. I hope that the low dose chemo, your amazing attitude, and the love the two of you share will combine to finally give you a break. Mike, I also hope when you need to rest, you will know it's not a weakness on your part. That's not really advise it's just an old lady being an old lady. OK, not that old, but some years older than the two of you.
I am pretty techno savvy so if you wonder how I find out pretty fast that there is a new post, well I have subscribed to your feed in bloglines. I click on bloglines and I see when the BBC, NY Times, my local News and Observer, and yes, when "our Fight" and other blogs I read have been updated.
All my best, Carver
I am not really sure if Mike will even remember me, and Liz I only met you once.. I think it was at public house, you guys were JUST engaged. Nice ring Mike.. btw. I am Renay's friend. But I knew these guys from Kutztown. I just want to say a) I stalk this blog every day.. b) Mike your friends are seriously in love with you and pulling for you every minute of every day.. I know Renay (better known as Retard) Dan Fitz and Joann are crazy for you and love talking about you and coming to visit. Renay told me she had so much fun with you on her last visit. I also want you to know your fight has really opened my eyes about Melanoma. I just had no idea.. how it could be like this. I have definately made real changes in my life to protect myself from Melanoma.. as much as one can.. I mean I LOVE going fake tanning so letting that one go was def tough :-) Dude, keep on kicking ass. c) Liz - you are very strong, brave and you are doing a wonderful job taking care of your man. My thoughts and prayers are with you every single day. I'll say some special prayers on my magical rosary for this chemo pill. Again, keep kicking ass!!
Hey Mike - Gregg Marsano here. I read the blog and you both are often in my thoughts. Just too much of a coward to write very often. Glad the Birds finally hooked you up with a good sunday; maybe the Phils can do that and more. See you around. Gregg
Hey Mike,
It's Jenn D, Nickel's sister. John has been keeping me posted on your fight. I think about you often and know that if anyone can, you can get through this. We had a lot of fun time
punching you at the bar
drinking in kutztown
the dead show
drinking in west chester
Sure sounds like we did a lot of drinking. Just wanted to let you know that I am here for you guys.
Liz,
I admire your strength. You are an amazing person and I hope to meet you one day.
Jenn D
Hi guys,
Pastor Steve here. I am one who was "blog" challenged. So, thanks for the "kick in the pants." Keep up the good work and fight. Our prayers are with you every day. Really, Kathy and I pray every morning for you.
Mike: GO EAGLES! and now. GO PHILLIES!
I'll talk to you soon.
P.S.
I discovered your blog through MPIP and have been following your journey for quite some time. I wish I had something profound to say but when it comes to melanoma, there isn't much to say except that 'it sucks'. My husband (42 yrs) has Stage IV melanoma too. We have a 9 and a 5 year old. We live in North Dakota and pray daily for Mike's healing and for you, Liz to have peace.
You can see our journey at www.caringbridge.com and type in davidfield.
Godspeed...
You don't know me, but I know you! Which is an honor, by the way. I stumbled on your blog by accident while searching on skin cancer. But you know, it was your smiling faces and that wonderful entry about the trip to Italy and Mike's effort to speak Italian (I'm studying it myself...spent the whole summer trying to learn how to roll my r's) that got a grip on my heart and I think about you guys every day. I go to work (in a library in DC), and I wonder how you are doing, and I worry about you. You have taken up residence in my mind, and put down roots there, and there you both live. Did you know that. You have another home! In my head and heart!
If life is love, then surely you have life! That is my thought today for you!
Laura
Hi Mike,
I nominated you for Eagle fan of the week last week. Since you didn't get the award yet they must be holding it up for the Super Bowl.
Both my wife (stage 1B) and I are pulling and praying real hard for you and your family to hang in there and get better.
Tom and Catherine - Laguna, CA
Liz and Mike,
Liz you don't know me but I am Nichols mom. Mike, I think of you often. I think of all the good times you and John must have had at KU (most of which I never heard of). But I do remember the beach party. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong Mike. You can do it.
Mary Ann
Hi Liz and Mike,
Nothing profound to say today. I gave you my profound statement earlier this week Liz. Glad you liked it. Here's to our miracle happening.
Linda (mom to John)
Mikey, I always wanted a son, and now I have you. You are my inspiration and my hero. Keep fighting like you promised, and I am sure you will win because you are my strong son.
Liz, you are my little angel. You give me strength.
You two are my life. I love you.
Hi Liz and Mike,
My name is Dalia. I have read most of your postings on MPIP and read your blog more than once. I admire your strength. Although I never met either of you, I find myself thinking about you espcially when I do not see a posting for a while. I have a strong feeling you are going to get through this. I really believe in strong will power and both of you have a lot of that. Mike's positive attitude and desire to keep fighting is amazing. I felt very glad when I read on your blog today that you are considering starting medication again. I truly wish you the best of luck, and am looking forward to more postings with good news.
Best regards,
Dalia
I've been following your story through the MPIP board. You two are amazing and the love you have for each other will see you through anything. I pray for you both every day. Know that there are so many people pulling for you both. Stay strong.
Liz and Mike, I am a stranger, but I am here following your blog and rooting for you Mike! I do have someone close to me that is a stage II. I pray for you to get well! Strangers DO care!
Yeah See!!!!!. Aunt Dale and NU NU say hello (not really sure on the spelling of NEW NEW). We are all inspired by your and liz's determination and fight. No shock to me though ever since we were little kids remember the time when Lance and I pinned you in the paper towel bin at BJ's with shopping carts and you manage to climb over the tampons and paper plates to safety ever since then I’ve never questioned your heart. Maybe you should try out for Eagles as a punt returner they could the help, How about those Redskins.. . I love you bro and not in a gay way like AGAN.
Arti (althought I think you go by Liz now),
Mom and Dad(Kathy and Steve) always keep me updated on you and Mike, and although we have not talked in years, I want you to know that the two of you are in my prayers often.
Sam
Liz and Mike,
I too came across your story on MPIP and have been following your blog. I am praying for you daily as I know, all too well, how devastating this disease is. Miracles do happen - believing in them is the biggest challenge. Here's to believing a miracle is coming your way!
For Liz,
What a great idea. Last year at this time I was a primary caregiver to my best friend Annie and one of the blessings of the month of September for me was reading her what others had posted on her blog. Enjoy each moment of lucid time, enjoy those Sunday games with Mike and keep the hope alive.
For Mike,
I am cheering for you from Seattle where we give our Sunday lovin to the Seahawks. Nowhere near the football history, but bring excitement to each Sunday none the less. I will add the Eagles to my Sunday prayers along with prayers for your healing and comfort. Kiss your amazing wife often on the weekdays and with each touchdown on Sundays!
Deb
Hi Liz and Mike~
I check your blog daily and look for an update. Your story is inspiring to me and many others. I was diagnosed Stage 3 in Dec '05 and have been NED for 21 months today. You both have taught me to NEVER give up and to keep up the fight. Thank you for sharing your story with everyone. It is a learning experience for everyone that reads it. By the way, I have been rooting for the Eagles and have picked them to win in my Fantasy Football pool for the last 3 weeks.
I will continue to send positive thoughts your way on a daily basis.
Keep up the fight Mike!!!
Kristen Touslee
Liz and Mike,
I think about you guys all the time and have been checking your blog everyday to see if there is an update. Your courage, strength, and devotion to each other are amazing.
You two are an inspiration to all of us. I continue to pray everyday for you and Mike. Like you said miracles do happen. Keep fighting!
Love,
Christine (Beanie), George and Charlotte
This is Kathie again and I forgot to say two things: First of all I'm from the San Francisco South Bay which leads me to the second thing: I'm a die-hard 49ers fan and I'll try not to hold it against you for being an Eagles fan!! :)
I check in on your blog regularly to get an update(I'm Eric's cousin, Lori). Because of this blog, I went to a dermatologist 2 weeks ago for the first time in years, and am now nagging my mother and sister to do the same. I pray for you and here's a shout out to you from Tennessee :-)
Liz and Mike,
My name is Jennifer, I live outside of Chicago and just happened on your site. My mom has cancer, lymphoma, and in my search to find other people, care takers and patients, going through what we are I found you two. I check in on you frequently to hear how you are both doing. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. The world seems so big at times but in reality it is a small place and we are all in this together. I am just one woman in Chicago praying for you but I know that the prayers are heard and I have faith that you will see improvement soon. Faith in your Eagles however, I have to say no. Although I am in Chicago I am a HUGE Packer fan. So bring it on Donovan, Brett is not going anywhere!
Jennifer
Dear Liz and Mike,
I think about you every day and I am always sending my love and healing thoughts your way.
You are both amazing and inspiring people, I'm sure you've heard this before.
I was thrilled to read that Mike has been so excited about the Eagles. I hope they win the next game to make Mike happy.
I am football challenged. I know very little about the game even though my son plays football for his high school team. When I go to a game, I cheer when other people cheer, that's how bad it is for me. They lost all the games last year, but they started this season winning the first 2 games. We've had his car painted and our front yard decorated with baloons by the cheerleaders, I am feeling the excitement of the game now...this may be a start, a new fan is born!
Love and hugs,
Alicia
Dear Liz and Mike,
I think about you every day and I am always sending my love and healing thoughts your way.
You are both amazing and inspiring people, I'm sure you've heard this before.
I was thrilled to read that Mike has been so excited about the Eagles. I hope they win the next game to make Mike happy.
I am football challenged. I know very little about the game even though my son plays football for his high school team. When I go to a game, I cheer when other people cheer, that's how bad it is for me. They lost all the games last year, but they started this season winning the first 2 games. We've had his car painted and our front yard decorated with baloons by the cheerleaders, I am feeling the excitement of the game now...this may be a start, a new fan is born!
Love and hugs,
Alicia
Dear Liz and Mike,
I think about you every day and I am always sending my love and healing thoughts your way.
You are both amazing and inspiring people, I'm sure you've heard this before.
I was thrilled to read that Mike has been so excited about the Eagles. I hope they win the next game to make Mike happy.
I am football challenged. I know very little about the game even though my son plays football for his high school team. When I go to a game, I cheer when other people cheer, that's how bad it is for me. They lost all the games last year, but they started this season winning the first 2 games. We've had his car painted and our front yard decorated with baloons by the cheerleaders, I am feeling the excitement of the game now...this may be a start, a new fan is born!
Love and hugs,
Alicia
Dear Liz and Mike,
I think about you every day and I am always sending my love and healing thoughts your way.
You are both amazing and inspiring people, I'm sure you've heard this before.
I was thrilled to read that Mike has been so excited about the Eagles. I hope they win the next game to make Mike happy.
I am football challenged. I know very little about the game even though my son plays football for his high school team. When I go to a game, I cheer when other people cheer, that's how bad it is for me. They lost all the games last year, but they started this season winning the first 2 games. We've had his car painted and our front yard decorated with baloons by the cheerleaders, I am feeling the excitement of the game now...this may be a start, a new fan is born!
Love and hugs,
Alicia
mikey-
today's the day for our fightin's bro! root em on brother.
Hi Mike and Liz -- I am so lucky to have two great friends like you -- you are always in my thoughts! Love you guys!
Love,
Sarah and Tom
Mike and Liz--
Colleen and I have kept up with this blog since you guys started it. We keep you in our daily thoughts and prayers. We enjoyed hanging out with you a few weeks ago and next time I will bring a full cake. To show how far this blog reaches, my parents check it from Tokyo.
I have a great memory of your wedding--it's not how beautiful the bride looked (which she did), it's not the shot toast (what a great idea), it's not the great time we had dancing with your friends and family (which was a blast), it's not the fantastic DJ (I may have had a man crush on him), it's not the chocolate fountain (sorry, I may have just stuck my finger under it without a piece of fruit)--it's the part in the best man's speech where one of the guys acted out Mike farting at the gym! That was hilarious. I tell this story to every person when the discussion of best man speeches comes up.
We love you both. Keep fighting!
Love, Alex and Colleen
Hi Liz and Mike,
I am one of Sarah Westbrook's sisters. I just wanted you to know that I keep you both in my prayers everyday and Sarah continues to give us updates! We are all thinking about you and hoping for peace and happiness. Take care and God bless!
~Katie Westbrook
Dear Liz and Mike-
I frequent mpip and I have been following your story like many others. You both are amazing beautiful people and it breaks my heart to hear what you have endured thus far. I have hope and will continue to have hope because I believe in miracles.
Dear Liz and Mike,
I've posted several times on MPIP and have also looked to your story for strength and encouragement. My father passed away 40 days ago from this disease, but I know he's looking down from heaven and trying to help those who are still here well and healthy.....my father was always keen to say you must protect the young for they are the future and I'm sure he is thinking of you. I often mentioned you both to him during his fight to try and give him strength and hope....Don't give up now.....miracles do happen and you need to remember what's important....love, life and laughter....that's how my dad always looked at life....so continue loving, living and laughing.....I"m thinking of you both tonight.
from Toronto, Canada
Daniela
Hi Liz and Mike,
My name is Beth and my husband Ken is stage 3a. Ken is from New Zealand originally. The ozone layer there is depleted more than here, and the rate of melanoma is especially high there as a result.
Ken is doing Interferon high-dose just now. He is doing pretty well with it. Ken and I lived in Philly when we were first married, and our first child was born at Pennsylvania Hospital. Do they still have the Louis Louis Parade, I wonder?
We now live in Boston. I'm not a big sports fan, but I think today was significiant for the Red Sox. The whole downtown tomorrow is being closed off for a big party. They sure know how to party in Philly. I used to like getting Long Island Ice Teas on South Street. Ooooo weeee!
We are pulling for you!
Beth in Bahstun
Hi Liz and Mike..of course we are reading your blog, but better yet, everyone on MPIP sends positive vibes and wants you to know you are always in our thoughts. JoanR
Hi Liz and Mike,
I check this blog at least a few times a week to see how you are doing. I apologize for never posting a response before, I've always responded by e-mailing Liz directly. I should have thought to be posting here so you could have both read my e-mails. My bad on that one - I will post here from now on as well as emailing Liz. I am glad to hear you are enjoying the football season. I wish I could be happy with you about some Eagles wins though!
I haven't been in touch for a few weeks b/c I was in Japan, which, by the way, is a very cool country. It was really quite an experience to be somewhere that I not only didn't understand what the hell people were saying, but I couldn't even recognize the writing since it is all symbols. We still got around okay, and the people seemed nice, but what do I know? They could have been telling me calling all sorts of nasty names with smiles on their faces. HaHa!
I wished good things for you in every temple and shrine I visited in Japan. You are both in my thoughts always and I send my love to you. I wish I lived closer so I could pop in to say hi, and give you some proper hugs, but since I can't, I'll just keep sending you the virtual ones. GIANT HUG! Love you both.
Nikki
Hello Liz and Mike
I live in West Australia and have seen your posts on MPIP. I wish for you the miracle that my husband didn't have, passing away from melanoma in April this year. This is a horrible disease but we know that miracles happen and people recover. I pray that you Liz will remain strong and I pray health and peace for Mike.
Prayers and hugs, Jennifer
Hi Liz and Mike. I'm a poster at mpip and have followed your journey there. Just wanted to send you best wishes from New Zealand.
Annette
Liz and Mike,
Just happened upon your blog this morning - from a link on MPIP. I've followed your story through your posts on MPIP. My husband (35) has stage IV - we've been through some incredible times since diagnosis 10 months ago - 10 days after our second son was born. Lymph node surgeries under the arm and neck, craniotimy, bio-chemo and many many months of soooo sick it was unbearable. I know your pain and the utter feeling of helplessness Liz, and can only begin to understand Mike's frustration - my husband on those bad days expressed much the same feelings as I've read in your blog. We've been blessed with a wonderful month of "normalcy". They stopped the bio-chemo for the tumor growth on his shoulder because his brain mets were growing- sent us home to die. He's been feeling better than ever and we've been living each day with our two boys to the fullest!Reading your blog fills me in on what I fear we will face in the coming months. We hold out for a miracle and have a few last ditch efforts to try. My words to you are enjoy the moments when hope and peace wash over you - get through the manic moments fast - love each other and embrace the silent, quiet moments of togetherness. Love and prayers and miracles to you both.
Kristin (in Maryland)
Hey Mike...
It's been a long time,and I hope when I say "Guy is thinking of you" it rings a bell.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep fighting.
Hi Mike and Liz,
In Tokyo at this hour(5PM) they say "Konnichi wa" which means good day. I am hoping you are having a good day. I am Alex's mom and he told me about you guys and forwarded your blog to Tokyo where we live at the present time.
I want you both to know that we are praying for both of you; Mike for a miracle and Liz for strength to endure this experience. I can tell you first hand that miracles do happen and as long as we keep praying and asking for one, God will hear us.
So don't give up hope and pray, pray, pray. My friends here in Japan are also praying for you both. I will be checking this blog from time to time to see your progress and read all the wonderful things about both of you.
Take care and be good to each other.
Love Barbara Scarola
Liz and Mike,
I, too, have been following your posts since I found the MPIP last December after my husband was dx'd 3C. I don't post much, but I read everyday and your lives have touched mine. I was moved to read your blog so I know your story. The two of you seem so much in love and remind me of my husband and myself, only younger (we're in our 50s). My hopes are with you, Mike.
Terri
Dear Liz & Mike:
Prayers and healing thoughts are coming your way from New Hampshrie. May you be comforted by your family and friends during this difficult time.
Janice (stage 2(b))
Hi Mike, Hi Liz,
My name is Consuelo and you don't really know me, but I keep following your blog. You are constantly in my thoughts and I really want you to know that you are not alone in this...a lot of people are cheering for you!!!
All my prayers.
Consuelo
Hi Liz and Mike,
You do not know me, but you two are a huge inspiration to me. My husband was recently diagnosed with stage IV, You two seem to have stayed quite strong through this and you live life to the fullest. You give me HOPE. Keep fighting Mike and never loose hope.
Hi! I have been silently following your blog for quite some time and I have you and your family in my prayers! Keep fighting!
Fighting For Mike
Liz and Mike,
I don't have the pleasure of knowing either of you - I came across your story while doing some online research.
Please know that I am praying for you both - I admire your courage so much.
Eric
Hey Michael-its Tamara! I know you know how much I love and adore you! But you might not know what an inspiration you are to me. The way you have maintained your sense of humor and loving spirit throughout this long batttle teaches me so much about how I want to live my life. Thank you! I love you--
Ok-Mike--it is Tamara again--I had more to say but I got cut-off for some reason (I guess I am one of those "people" Liz was referring to who can't "navigate the internet" so well). Anyway --I was just thinking about when I first met you at a Hoyle, Morris & Kerr softball game 7 years ago--I remember thinking, "wow who is the hottie who is single handedly leading our law firm to the biggest victory in lawyer softball history" (boy the District Attorneys didn't know what they were in for when you walked on the field). You will be proud to know you still hold the JLL home run record (Jewsih Lawyer League)Anyway on that day I was disappointed to learn that you were Liz's boyfriend and so I would never get my hands on that cute little toosh of yours. But as the years went on and Liz and I became great friends my disappointment lessened(although never disappeared) -- because I realized what a perfect couple you two are--the dedication, love, patience, generosity, zest for life and love of vodka shots the two of you share with one another is really an amazing model for all couples.
Also you should know that your outstanding generoisty has changed my life in so many ways--if it wasn't for your willingness to take a complete stranger into your home for 17 1/2 days--Dave may have lived happily ever after with Wyatt forever and ever and where would that have left Sarah and I . . . .
Hi Mike,
Liz said off color jokes are ok so here's one of my favorites.
Mickey Mouse and Minnie have been dating a long time and eventually marry. After a few years though, Mickey goes to see a lawyer about a divorce. The lawyer is looking over the papers and says " OK, Mickey, I want to understand this. You want to divorce Minnie because she's crazy" Mickey replies "I didn't say she was crazy I said she was fucking Goofy"
got that one from my dad. My prayers for you every day!
Fen
The wonder of the internet - Mike and Liz I have followed your blog for a long time now , the love you guys have for one another is so apparent and so special!
You are both often in my thoughts and prayers and I talk about you to friends as though you are my friends, Keep strong, Mandy UK
Liz and Mike,
I don't know you but I cry with you. I have been following your blog from mpip. I'm stage I and think about how it all started out for you as stage I. I put myself in your shoes as much as possible and know I could be there any day as well. You both are truly inspirational and I will always take that with me for as long as I may live.
Life can surely be so unfair and we just can't control it. I pray everyday that it someday makes sense however and that there is eternal life and happiness again after this life, it is what keeps me going.
I hope there is some miracle out there for you so you may have many more happy times together before it's time to move on.
Mike and Liz -
I just wanted you to know that there are people all over the place thinking about you two! I live in South Jersey (Laurel Springs) and I was diagnosed with Melanoma about a year and a half ago. I've been married to my husband for three years (also an Italian) and I feel connected to your story in so many ways. I think and worry about you guys all of the time - I know I don't even know you, but me and my family are pulling for you to get through this tough time. I really enjoyed reading about your trip to Italy and it really reminded me of me and my own husband. We know if anyone can do it, you two can pull through. You have many more trips to take in the future together.
Keep the faith!
Stephanie
Mike & Liz,
My name is Donna and I live on Long Island. I'm originally from Massachusetts. I've been following your blog for awhile - I was diagnosed with melanoma 2 years ago. I've followed your struggle and admired your dedication to each other and your willingness to fight this!
Hi - My name is Jennifer and I got this link from MPIP. I have been fortunate that all my skin cancers have been on the non-melanoma variety. I pray daily that it stays that way.
I also pray for you and your family. You seem like such a loving couple. I hate that this disease has come into your life. I keep waiting for that magic pill to come along that will eradicate this disease once and for all. It's out there . . somewhere.
Best wishes to you both and know that love is being directed at you from people around the world.
Jen
My name is Sandra and Came across your blog as a link from another blog. I live in Salt Lake City, Utah, work, have kids and a huband. My ex husband had melanoma. I just wanted you to know that I have been following your story and want to send you all of the good wishes I have in my heart. Sandra
Liz and Mike,
The first thing I'd like to say to Mike is "GO PHILLIES!!". Yes, I am fair weather fan and only become interested in baseball when the Phils make the playoffs. As for the Eagles, hopefully they get it together in the Bye week.
I first met Mike shortly after I met Liz (almost 8 years ago) and remember all of us sitting at a large table watching a Temple Owls Basketball game. I realized after meeting Mike that Liz was actually much cooler than I originally thought. I remember the two of them facing each other and talking and laughing. It was obvious from the first time I saw them together what a great couple they were. They shine brighter when together.
I read through the other postings and for those of you who don't know Mike or Liz personally, I can tell you that they are wonderful, generous people and that your postings mean a lot to them. Also, keep praying. Mike is the kind of guy that miracles happen to.
Love,
Tracey and Ed. (And for Auntie Liz, a big, wet, sloppy, doggie-breath kiss from Darby)
Don't ask me how I got to read your blog, but I thought you'd like to hear I'm rooting for you from Argentina.
Count on my prayers too,
Andrea
Liz and Mike,
I have been reading your blog and been an active MPIP "person" since Geoff was diagnosed in May 2007 with stage iv. I think of you often and want you to know you have a big cheering squad on the site. Keep up the fight...love each other and surround yourselves with family and friends.
We are in the fight as well and at times want it all to stop and go away. Reading your story and others has helped us know we are not alone in this battle.
Maureen & Geoff, Toronto, Canada
Hi Liz and Mike - I have been reading your blog ever since Mike sent it to me, (which was some time ago) and I apologize for not writing more often - but you are always in my prayers and often in my thoughts. I can't begin to imagine what you and your families are going through and what it must take to get through each day, but I know that if anyone can do this, Mike can. The Mike I know is full of life and full of laughter (and sometimes just full of it! ) and that is absolutely contagious!
A little Mike story - just this past summer while I was on the beach playing bocce ball with my family, I felt obligated to tell them that my bocce ball nickname came from Mike during one of the countless games we would play in Avalon…”Nikki Barbach”. Mike continued to call me this…even after summer had come and gone! A little bocce ball on the beach was a great way to spend an afternoon with friends.
Love – Nikki Barbach
Hey Mikey! Something funny... tell Liz the story (if you haven't already) when you and Dano took a little trip to South Street to buy me my 30th b-day present. Your the best Mikey. I pray for you every day and know that you will fight to make miracles happen! I love ya! bigrenay
Liz and Mike -- I have been closely following your story through MPIP for about 1.5 years -- since you and Jaime, my daughter, were getting the Taxol/Carbo/Nexavar chemo at the same time. You guys are about the same age as my Jaime, and I have been cheering you on, and worrying, and cheering you on, and worrying, etc. Your strength, Mike, and your loving devotion, Liz, are what love stories are all about. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as you search for your miracle. Don't lose hope.
Donna R (mom to Jaime)
We're following your journey in Georgia! You've been prayed for and thought of so often. I wish I knew you both, since your words and courage and love for each other have been such a blessing on your blog.
Keep loving each other and never stop clinging to hope.
Lisa & family
Dear Mike and Liz,
It was so great to see both of you yesterday. Sorry about the Eagles, but hey, how about those Phillies.
Mike - it was good to see you eating yesterday. Hope you got some Combos.
Keep up the strengh both of you and I will talk to you later.
Love,
Mom #2
hey Liz and Mike, it's Slappy McGurk, your neighbor from across the street, here (Mike, "thanks" for the nickname -- you called me that when I visited you at Penn). Mike, that was the by far the best nickname anyone tried to give me about that alleged "incident" that allegedly occurred on Phillies opening day, and it's just one more example (added to the others people have mentioned here) that illustrates how amazing you and Liz are for your grace under pressure and your ability to maintain your razor-sharp wit and overall sense of humor in the face of such difficult circumstances. I keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers, but the truth is that you give me far more strength, courage, inspiration, and hope than I can even begin to describe. -S.M.
Liz and Mike,
I'm so embarassed to report that I had no idea what you guys have been going through these past couple of years. Tracey just sent me your blog today and I'm totally at a loss for the right words.
After reading much of your site, all I can think is how strong and refreshingly hopeful you both are. (Even when it comes to the dreadful Eagles. What the heck happened?? Thankfully we can all distract ourselves with the Phillies for a while longer!)
I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers, and check back regularly to see how you're doing.
All the best to both of you.
Take good care,
Jen (Whelan) Kovatch
Hi Mike and Liz!
This is Kris and Dean from MPIP (Dean is Stage IV). We just want you to know that we are praying for you! Have you watch The Secret? It's life changing and has taught Dean how to take control of the disease instead of the disease taking control of him. If you haven't heard of it, let me know and I will send you the info.
Hang tough Mike! Miracles happen every second, just look at USF!!!Ha!
Godspeed!
Dean and Kris
Mike and Liz-
You are both amazing, strong people. My husband John is also 34 and has been battling melanoma for 4 years. He was first diagnosed on his 30th birthday, and since then has had a mole and lymph node removed, done the same VA vax trial, done biochemo and IL-2, had his left lung removed 1 year ago and 3 brain tumors removed since then with 3 rounds of radiation. He too is fighting as hard as possible, but this disease is a bitch. We just got married this past May, and hope to keep on living despite the beast that likes to throw a wrench into life as often as possible. We promise to keep you both in our prayers daily. Keep fighting Mike! Liz - keep fighting and remember to take some time to care for yourself too! It's important and will help you fight for Mike!!!
Merry
Liz and Mike,
I have been following your story on MPIP (like most people). My heart just breaks reading everything you are going through because it hits so close to home. I lost my mom to melanoma in June. She was in so much pain. The disease is so terrible and so devastating. It is so painful watching someone you love and adore suffering so much. I try to find peace that she is no longer suffering and is enjoying eternal life, but I miss her so very much. I hope and pray for a miracle for you and Mike. He is so young. My family is in the process of starting a foundation to raise money for awareness and research for a cure. There are so many sad stories of people who have been impacted by this disease. Something needs to be done as soon as possible. I admire your strength and will pray for you. Keep your hopes high and your faith strong. God is working through us. All my best to you. PS - I love the posting about your wedding reception. You sound like me and my family and friends.
Liz and Mike,
I've been a friend of Lisa's for about 8 years now and she is the one who told me about your blog. You guys are always at the top of my list of "How they doin?'s" the few times we get together. I must admit--I often feel like I'm prying into your personal lives every time I read your blog but then I remind myself how important it is to keep you both in my thoughts and prayers no matter that we've never actually met. I believe in positive energy and I also believe in faith. I wish you the strength to keep fighting and the comfort of love when you feel like you can't go on. You are both an inspiration and I'm just going to look forward to that party or occasion when we'll finally get to meet and give each other a smile. Take care and God bless you both.
Amanda Schwinn
Mike and Liz,
I'm Lori, aka MissMelanoma. You may or may not have visited my site but by way of MPIP I came across yours. I check in on you guys almost every day and you're in my thoughts even more often. I draw so much strength from your words and your journey, and your attitude and fortitude constantly amaze me. Please know what an effect your strength and your love for each other has had on so many of us! And thanks for keeping us posted.
-Lori
Hey Liz & Mike,
Sean here from Seattle. Have been following the Melanoma "scene" ever since my dad was diagnosed Stage IV three months ago.
I've seen your posts on MPIP and have been following your fight. I love how football is helping Mike stay in the game. I'm a Seahawks fan myself, but why not, GO EAGLES!
Keep up the fight and we'll be thinking of you in the northwest.
Sean
Mike and Liz,
It was so great to see you both on Sunday. And Mike it was wonderful to see you eating. Did you get your Combos?
What a crazy sports day it was. The Eagles sucked but the Phillies were fantastic. It could be a long season for the Birds. But like the true fans we are, we will hang in there with them. Maybe you Mike should be calling the plays.
Just remember we love you both and are praying for you.
Love you,
Mom #2
Hi, Liz & Mike -
I post on MPIP as LibbyinVA (sometimes as LibbyandDavidinVA) and have been following your story from there. Sorry to say I have not been on the board for a few weeks and just saw a message today that someone posted for you.
Our melanoma story is a little unusual...but then aren't they all! I was dx'ed in 2005 with a stage IIIb melanoma, my dog died from it in 2006 and my husband was dx'ed in 2007, thankfully at stage 1a for which we are very grateful.
My lesion was on my leg and I've been through 3 surgeries (WLE, SNB and LND) along with a clinical (vaccine) trial at NYU under Dr. Anna Pavlick.
It' time for my 6-month full body CT & PET scans and check-up at NYU on 10/16. So, I am trying real hard not to let the "scanxiety" take over. We are keeping our fingers and toes crossed that the disease has remained stable.
Believe me, I know it's much easier said than done, but I'll say it anyway...try to stay hopeful and keep fighting, Mike, because someday there will be a cure for this stuff and you could be the one who makes a difference. My prognosis stinks when you look at the statistics and yet I am still here and expect to be here for a long time. I am 55 and my husband (David) is 57 so we are not kids and know just how precious every second of life is or should be to everyone.
You are an absolutely gorgeous couple and the love you share is so obvious in all your postings.
Please know just how much everyone cares and prays for you. Every time I check the MPIP board, someone has posted on there asking how you are doing and if anyone has heard from you. These folks really care and they were often my lifeline when I was first dx'ed and was convinced I'd been given a death sentence.
Although I initially heard about you through the MPIP board, we also know Carole Kelley. She is so amazing and says such terrific things about you two.
Well, enough rambling for now. Keep up the fight, Mike and Liz. Even though we may seem like strangers, we are all connected and as such you are ALWAYS in our daily thoughts and prayers!
Take care and never give up hope!
Libby & David
PS I was born and raised in Philadelphia. My grandfather played for the Eagles long before they were even called the Eagles. He died in 1963 at the age of 75 so he would be really OLD now. He had a crippled arm (dislocated shoulder during birth because he was such a big baby...could have been easily fixed had they only known at the time to just pop it back into place). Anyway, just thought you might find the story interesting!
Libby in VA
Dear Liz and Mike-
My name is Beth and I live in Atlanta. I started reading your blog after I was diagnosed with melanoma this summer. I wanted you both to know that my family has you in our thoughts and prayers. My kids pray for Mike every night and my son likes to add "Even though he's an Eagles fan!!" You are so very brave and courageous. Keep up the fight!
Beth
Thanks for a blast Mike! It was great seeing you not to mention FYA, Chew and Broc. Hope we weren't a little too much for you, we had a few pints at the Dodger waiting for FYA to show. Now that we know where you're at I hope to be by soon. Liz, sorry we missed you, next time. Tell your mom I said thanks for the pretzels, I ate my bag before getting back to the shore! And don't go slobbering on my sweatshirt that wasn't a gift!! And next time I yell doorknob when you fart you better start running!
Love ya,
Bill Broccoli
My name is Erica and my husband, Ken, is a stage IV melanoma survivor. He was 35 when he became stage IV with 17 tumors throughout his body, but has been in "remission" since June 26, 2005. Because we have been so lucky - my heart goes out to all others who continue to battle. There is always hope and you are in our thoughts.
Hey Balakhanis,
It was great to see you on Sunday. Sorry about the Eagles!! Go Phillies!!
e
P.S. When are we going to open our Secret Santa gifts?
Hi Liz and Mike,
Liz "knows" me from MPIP plus we have emailed a couple of times. Also, I know Carole (Love and Light) quite well and she tells me all about you two - wonderful, wonderful things.
I am a Stage IV melanoma patient. I advanced to Stage IV in July 2005 and here I am.
Mike, you are my son's age. He is a HUGE football fan and one of the highlights of his year (and he has a pretty exciting life) is fantasty football draft day.
I keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Never give up hope!
Liz, by now you must be hoarse reading all these posts to Mike. The care and concern is overwhelming. Know you are not alone in this fight.
Stay Strong
King (Kathie)
Liz and Mike,
My name is Beth and I am a friend of Liz's friend Tracey W. I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and keep fighting. Liz, you are a very special person. Take care, Beth
Hey you filthy animal!
After living with you for many years at college and sharing a summer place at Cape May, I can honestly say I still crack up at the mere thought of some of our adventures. Most of the over-the-top moments are not suitable for the general public. I have to post a copy of the infamous Broccoli write-up, which should be made into a movie someday.
How about the time you busted me and Broc red handed at the shore trying to kidnap your iguana? Then, a few drunkin games of nugget basketball me and him almost burn the house down. Which reminds me, a fry daddy and drunks don't belong together. Ahhh, good times...
Seriously, I know we will be able to discuss these and other moments in person for years to come. Keep on fighting and you know I am always here if you need me for anything.
-KJP forever-
Liz & Mike,
My name is Alli, and I have been following your blog through MPIP for several months now. Please know that the both of you are in my prayers daily!!
xoxo
Alli
Houston, Texas
Mike,
You remember when we were drunk at the shore? Uh...specifically the night that you beat me senseless? Still, I think I nead to specify futher. Remeber the night that we went to the Princeton, and then on the way home, we stumbled towards WAWA for some late night food? On the way there I saw a mattress in the street...I went to dive on it, and you pushed me in mid-air, and I landed on the hard, hard street? And remember still going to Wawa anyway? I puchased one Fresh Green Pepper...and you asked "what are doing with a pepper?", and I immediately smashed it on your head in line. And then you had to elevate things further by smashing a gallon of water down on the floor of WAWA, and then Dan Jordon joined the fight and smashed a banana on your head. Dan and I ran out of the store laughing...you were also laughing, but proceeded to pick up 5-pound rocks from the WAWA landscaping and started hurling them at us. You always elevate things to the next level...huh.
Liz and Mike, you mean so much to both Nancy and myself, and your courage is inspirational. Mike, keep fighting you big nose freek.
Jeff and Nancy
Hi Mike & Liz,
Just wanted to let you know that we are always thinking of you both. Keep fighting and stay strong!
Matt & Tania
Mike and Liz,
Let me start out by saying - Liz I admire your strength, and the outpouring Love you show every day for Mike. I know several people who are following "Our Fight", and tell me often how they check it daily! Everyone talks of how you encourge them with their own relationship. Grant it, no one is going through what you both are currently - but you inspire so many with your loving words and your overall determination. You teach many how to inspire those we love so much
Mike - I keep you in my thoughts and prayers every day. You will WIN!! I am so confident that your overall determination will be mind over matter. You also insire me, we are both survivors. I look forward to a visit with you both soon
Keeping you in our hearts
Donna, Sheldon and Justin Smith
My name is Beth. I have been following this story thanks to a good friend of mine, Donna. She has melonoma as well. You're story is very touching. I always look forward to more updates about how Mike is doing. My husband and I have lost his father to lung cancer about 3 years ago. Then about a year ago, my aunt was diagnosed with melonoma in her eye. She has been doing ok and I always look forward to hearing how she is doing. She lives far away from me, but I always hear updates and it's good news. Now, I worry about my friend, Donna and only continue to wish nothing but good things with her fight. She is such a wonderful person. I admire so many things about her. Once she showed me this blog, I have been hooked. I always wish for Mike to win this battle. He sounds like a really remarkable man who needs to be around to help make a difference in this world. I believe in some ways he already has, with showing how hard he will fight and not stop. I want him to win the fight! Cancer is such a bad disease and I don't wish it on anyone, especially after seeing my father-in-law suffer the way he did. That was such a difficult time, but my husband and I have also taken so many good memories. His father worked so hard to give his family everything they needed and never had time for himself. So, when we found out about him being sick, he made a joke about this being his retirement. Some retirement. Too bad he was the healthiest person you would every meet. He never smoked, ate all of the right foods, but that didn't help. He was only "retired" for 8 months from the time of diagnosis to the time he passed away. We saw him all of the time. My husband got to spend so much time with him and it was great. He idolizes his dad so much, even after he's gone. We talk about him all of the time, and keep plenty of pictures around. I feel honored to have met such a wonderful man, just as I feel honored to have been pulled into your's and Mike's life through this blog. You are both such caring and giving people. I only wish the best and hope to hear good news with each update. Keep fighting Mike! I believe in you!
HI LIZ AND MIKE,
I'M A FELLOW MPIP'ER. I JUST WANTED TO DROP A LINE AND LET YOU KNOW I FOLLOW YOUR HEROIC JOURNEY THROUGH THIS HORRIBLE ORDEAL. I PRAY FOR ALL THE WARRIORS! YOU GUYS STAY STRONG!
STACI
Hi Mike and Liz-
I first saw your postings on the MPIP site and have followed your blog since. I continue to keep the 2 of you in my prayers. While not a football fan, I love the fall. Hang in there!
Rocco
Stage IV
flea,
it was great seeing you the other day and reminiscing with broc, bill, and fya. it's been too long. sorry i didn't get to meet the mrs. annie (the wife) has been keeping up with the blog and is excited about meeting you both. we'll have to figure out when we can make that happen.
thank your mom for the soft pretzels.
go phils,
chew
Hi my name is Sandee & I am battling stage IV cancer as well. Glad to hear that Mike still has the will to beat this... so go I!!!
Praying for you!
I met Mike 8 yrs ago and have known you (Liz) for over 28yrs (as you may already know, i am your way too cool younger sister). Lizzy, I know I have said this a million times already - but here is million and one. You are AMAZING! Every day I am amazed at your strength, love and dedication.
And for little dumbo, I am just speechless when it comes to your strength, sense of humor despite all of this. We are going to get through this and one day sit around and laugh about it - right after I finish making fun of your ears. I love you BOTH more than you can ever imagine and please know that if you ever need anything i am only a phone call away (but i will probably be screening my calls and won't pick up the phone!).
Love you VERY much,
Me
Hi , Annie ,Chew's wife ( still getting use to that) Matt sure had fun with all U Kutztowner's Monday! I think i know about 25% of stories from this crazy era. the other 75% probably should only be recalled with your crew ,in a sound proof room .
hope to get down & meet U both !& maybe some of the guys too .
in your post you mentioned Mike is starting low dose chemo . The pills are crazy tough on the stomach . I take Methotrexate 1x week ( friday nites) i started with 5pills but researched on line & found injection option. i do it my self 1x week . look into it .. really has helped me .
much love from the Wyoming vally !
keep strong !
our prayers R being sent your way !
Annie
Hi Liz and Mike,
I ask Tammi and Bess about you guys all of the time. Today was the first time that I have ever read your blog. I just want you both to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sending you the most positive vibrations in the universe and much love. Keep your spirits up and remember how many people, near and far, are touched by your love for one another and are pulling for you both!!!
Love,
Stacy Heenan
Mike and Liz,
Its Dave.
The two of you are always in my thoughts and I have tremendous love for the both of you. That is why I granted Liz's wish and moved in with you guys for 17.66 days. All of which will be documented in the upcoming movie "Dave's Mike and Liz Vacation- Whatever you do don't use the display towels they’re just for company"
Mike and Liz's ability to endure a this disease with grace, unyielding hope, and without ever losing their sense of humor is inspiring to everyone that knows them and follows thier story on this blog. Mike has always had a way of making everyone around him feel comfortable and relaxed no matter how well he knows them and regardless of how much or little they have in common. I marvel that despite his condition he still welcomes everyone that comes to visit and tries to make them feel at home. We could make unnumerable posts to this site about how difficult your fight against this disease has been, but I will never lose sight of the amazing way in which you have chosen to fight it. Mike you have truly earned a "What's Happening" ten slap.
As A physcian and a Melanoma patient myself, I pray for the both of you. Keep fighting, Never give in, Educate others of this horrific disease that often strikes the young and healthy, there maybe a cure in the future....DON'T GIVE UP.
Aaron Epstein, M.D.
Chicago, Illinois
epsteinmd@hotmail.com
Hi Liz and Mike,
I love reading your blog and please don't stop posting. It's a way for all who love you to keep up with you, let you know how much we all love you and are rooting for you.. Hang in there Buddy!!!!
I will never forget after e-mailing and all of the T Shirts you sent me we finally had the opportunity to meet last NOv. at the Phila. marathon. I will never forget when you picked me up at the hotel, you drove in the wrong way, 100 mph. At that point I said Aha MIKE THE PHILLY, NYC CABBIE.. I couldn't stop laughing about that when we got back to the hotel..Liz and Mike, your humor, your kindness and your love have been an constant source of inspiration to me and so many others. You have touched my heart and my soul in ways you will never imagine. Please know I am here for you.. Hang tough Mike... Sending you both big hugs, and healing angels.
Love and Light
Carole
Thinking of you 2 today and hope it is a good one for you. Continue to keep you in my prayers.
Hey Flea,
I just wanted to drop a quick line and say hi and we are thinking of you up here in Ottawa, Canada. Marcus called to touch base and to let me know that he went to visit you. I am sorry to hear you are not well, but know you are a fighter. Cindy and I are thinking about you both daily.
Who would have thought that while trying to find a (KJP)nickname for me early in our friendship, the one name you threw out while watching channel 6 news, would stick to this day.
Keep up the fight as I know you will,
Ma Spleen
(aka Bryon) & Cindy
Mike and Liz,
We are praying for you everyday and know you will pull through. We check this site everyday for an update and everyday I am so amazed and impressed with your love, dedication, friendship and commmitment to one another. Mike you have a wonderful wife and you are both very blessed to have one another.
We are here if you need anything and want you to know we are always thinking of you and praying for a quick recovery.
Love, Jeff and Dee
Mike and Liz,
We felt bad for you the day we watched the Eagles play in those Romper Room uniforms. I bet it made you want to be a Giants fan. Thank for the blog. Our family has been praying for you. The girls add you to there prays every night. Liz you are such a champion and Mike you keep fighting. God has a plan for you. We look forward to seeing you.
Love,
Don and Dorothy
Hey Mike it was really great to see you last week! I am sorry that you really weren't up for guests but put on a happy face for us anyway. After I left i met up with a few of the guys and reminisced about the days of late night karaoke down the shore and our kick ass Football team, GINTER! I still have no idea what that means by the way!
I love ya Mike! Stay strong and I am praying everyday for you both!!
Amy keating
Liz and Mike,
Please know that Evan and I love you both and are always thinking about you and praying for you guys!
Love,
Aryn and Evan
Liz and Mike,
I just wanted to let you know that you are both in my thoughts everday. I pray constantly not only for a miracle but that you'll continue to have the strength to fight this until you get your miracle. Liz, you truly are an amazing person and I'm so glad that I've been given the opportunity to work with you. Mike, we've never met, but I know that you too are an amazing person. Don't give up the fight!
Michelle
Liz and Mike--
I think about you every day.
Mike- I am available to give you a back massage anytime- just say the word!
Liz- you are amazing- the strongest person I know.
I love you both,
Bess
Hey Flea--it's Saddest Moon.
Nickels, Broc, Marcus and I are in contact a lot with updates on you--and I hear that one by one they all visited--must have been fun and I'll bet there were a lot of laughs remembering how insane Kutztown was.
I think of you all the time, I have you marked in my "Favorites" and check the blog twice a day for updates. Don't get a big head, you're in my Internet "Favorites", not just favorites in general. :)
I just had my first baby last week so I'm home until January--I picked a good time to have a baby, I'll be home for the holidays. We had a boy--his name is Joseph Richard and man, he's cute. I'll have to get in touch with Broc soon to get him a snappy nickname, but so far all he's suggesting is calling him Brocolli Jr. I don't want my kid growing up wearing mostly long johns and flannel shirts, so I'm steering clear of that one.
Ok brother--your story is an inspiration--keep fighting, and we'll keep praying.
"Sore Ass Crossing"
Love, amy (saddest moon)
Mike and Liz,
My name is Andrea and I live in the Philadelphia suburbs. I can empathize with Mike and all the Phila. sports fans. Let's hope the Eagles show us something against the Jets! I understand what you are going through as my brother was diagnosed with melanoma at age 42. I admire the love, devotion and commitmentyou have to each other and I pray for you both to have the strength and courage to continue the fight! I follow your blog for some time looking for an update. I hope you both are hanging in there!
Andrea
I just wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you guys.
Hello from Ohio. I somehow came to your blog some time ago through a string of other blogs I am sure. I check in on your blog from time to time, because even though I don't know you, you are in my thoughts and prayers often. You are both such beautiful people, and I can't help but believe that you are admired and loved by many.
Toni Marie
Mike and Liz:
I love and admire you both so much. I hate that you have to deal this is awful disease.
Mike, you are a remarkable person who is fighting this horrible disease with such strength, grace, charm and humor.
Liz, you are the strongest person I know. I can't even imagine being in your shoes. I've told you this a million times, but I have so much respect for your love and devotion to Mike. You've handled this whole situation with such strength and you are still you -- making people laugh, speaking your mind, calling people out when needed.
I had a blast the other night at the Continental and beyond. We should do it again soon!
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers always!
Love,
Colleen
Dear Pones,
I check every few weeks for any updates. When there are, I forward them to a few select people. As I have told Liz before, my husband is terrible at filling me in on any updates, so I love reading the blog. I always end up smiling at the end!! And I think that Liz should become a writer!! We love you both very much and you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. In fact, my mom has a 'prayer line' where she calls in and gives names of people to prayer for - people all over the world then pray for those names and you are among them! We would love to come visit on Saturday, if you are up to it :)
Love Matt & Leslie Shultz
Dear Liz and Mike,
I've been following your story ever since my friend and co-worker E. Scott told me about you and your blog. It seems so unjust that you have to fight this fight, and yet you are handling it with grace, love, courage, humor, and strength. I think of you frequently -- please let me know if I can do anything for you. Hopefully this message (and the one hundred that came before it) show you how important you are and what an impact you're having, even among "strangers." Best wishes.
Mike and Liz,
It's Leanne Scott (yes, I am the proud wife of Eric Scott, the one and only). I am truly honored to know both of you and to share a special friendship. Posting a comment is not an easy thing to do and I have probably erased at least eight sentences up until this point. This makes me think of your entire blog and how you have poured your heart out to so many people, those you know and those you do not know. This demostrates amazing courage, strength and serious committment to each other. I am so proud of both of you. You have opened up your hearts and your home. I hope you didn't mind us crashing at your house during the first Sunday of 2007 NFL football games. That was a great time. Where else can I feel so accepted in my Champ Bailey jersey anyway? I love you both so much and we think of you every single day. Love always and forever, Leanne (and Eric and our constant French Bulldog companion, Cruise) P.S. Liz, you need to admit that Cruise is your favorite dog.
Dear Mike,
It's Kimberly Bordner (formerly Bradley). Remember the good old Gig, Inc. days? I haven't seen you in a while but still very much keep in touch with Jenny (formerly Basset) and Lisa (formerly Wommack). I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I have not stopped praying for you and WILL NOT stop praying for you until this behind you. I would love to see you again hopefully sometime soon and meet your wife and talk about some fun old times. I'm here for you if you guys need anything, you can reach me through Jenny. Again, you can count on your friends to fight this fight right along with you buddy. Love, Kimberly
Hi. I knee Mike at Kutztown. I just heard the news of his passing (I am way out of touch). I am so sorry! He was a bright personality, always able to make you smile.
I have been reading your blog, sent to me by a friend, and have been crying and smiling for a long time.
You are an amazing woman and wife! So strong
thank you for sharing your experience.
~ Barbara
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